TIPS009: Pain with a Purpose with Barb Smith

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TIPS009: Pain with a Purpose with Barb Smith




Barb Smith is the founder and facilitator of the Saginaw Survivors of Suicide, which has been supporting families left behind after suicide for the past twenty-five years. Barb has received training and certifications from numerous experts in the field of suicide prevention, intervention, and the aftermath of suicide including Bill Steele, Iris Bolton, AFSP, and AAS. She has been recognized as the ā€œSaginawianā€ of the year, and in 2003 she received the ā€œVolunteer of the Year Awardā€ from United Way.

Click to tweet: Barb Smith shares her incredible journey on the iā€™Mpossible Project Show!

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Time Stamped Notes

  • 1.50 Barbā€™s brother John took his own life at the age of 20, which led her on a journey to be a suicide prevention and suicide aftercare advocate and trainer
  • 2.31 Barb speaks and trains all across the state of Michigan using the Yellow Ribbon program, which is geared toward youth suicide prevention
  • 5.20 Initially, Barb channeled the grief of losing her brother to suicide, by helping other people going through a similar loss
  • 8.45 In Barbā€™s professional opinion, one of the most important components in the fight against suicide is actually use the word ā€œsuicideā€ā€”especially when suspecting a friend or a loved one may be thinking suicidal thoughts
  • 9.14 Intervening when someone is thinking of suicide can be positioned similarly to CPR, when one sees a person is short of breath or experiencing physical symptoms we go into ā€œCPR modeā€ and when we see someone displaying signs of suicidal thinking, we can go into ā€œsuicide prevention mode.ā€
  • 12.44 Instead of saying ā€œeverything happens for a reason,ā€ when something bad happens, allow yourself and others to find the space to make meaning from the bad and turn it to good
  • 22.16 Barbā€™s favorite word is ā€œhopeā€ and if someone made a film of her life the title role would be played by Linda Carter (find out more fun facts about Barb in the Quick Fire Round)
  • 26.30 Barb has 6 grandkids!

 

Key Points

  1. Helping others can give purpose to a painful experience or event
  2. Trauma (suicide loss) can change you but it doesnā€™t have to destroy you
  3. With proper training preventing death by suicide can be as straightforward as preventing death using proper CPR training

Resources or Websites Mentioned

AugustĀ 6Ā 2017ā€”WalkĀ forĀ HopeĀ fundraiser:Ā www.crowdrise.com/walkforhope2017
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Barbā€™sĀ website: www.saginawsurvivorsofsuicide.orgĀ 
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Barbā€™sĀ email:Ā sosBarb@gmail.comĀ 
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Barbā€™sĀ story,Ā PainĀ withĀ aĀ Purpose,Ā (e-bookĀ orĀ paperback)Ā inĀ TheĀ iā€™MpossibleĀ ProjectĀ VolumeĀ 1:Ā 
ReengagingĀ withĀ Life,Ā CreatingĀ aĀ NewĀ You:Ā  www.iampossibleproject.com/one
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TheĀ iā€™MpossibleĀ Projectā€™sĀ ChangingĀ MindsĀ MentalĀ HealthĀ andĀ SuicideĀ PreventionĀ BasedĀ